New Year, New Look
“For last year's words belong to last year's language and next year's words await another voice.”T.S. Eliot, Little Gidding II
Happy 2013!
It's a new year and my blog has a new look and a new voice. I am excited to debut my crisper, cleaner Wordpress blog. And am even more thrilled to announce that I will be getting back into the blogging routine.One of my new year's resolutions is to blog more consistently. Some bloggers I know are resolving to post less. To step back and step out into the real world. To connect with the real people right in front of them. To stay grounded.But the last couple of weeks of bloggerly absence has only reinforced my hunch that blogging, writing and processing and sharing my thoughts and fears and prayers with you, actually helps keep me grounded.Blogging helps me make sense of my world, forces me to slow down and reflect, teaches me to look for God and weave worship into my daily routine. Through blogging, I learn to see my best self, even when I'm scared and vulnerable. I learn that I can only become my best self by caring enough and giving enough to be scared and vulnerable.So here's to another year of sharing God's promises, seeking joy and kindness and compassion, and processing life and God and love together, though we may feel scared and vulnerable. ***
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Fear and Dust
Morning rolls in with the gray clouds that now perch at the apex of the volcano. I sip my coffee. Nibble my toast. Admire the bright yellow walls of my new room and say hello to the pictures of friends and family hanging from my walls, reminding me of who I am, of the me I want to be.
I run my index finger across my great slab of desk, sweeping up a stream of dust, gray like the clouds.
A phrase flashes, "I will show you fear in a handful of dust." T.S. Eliot, The Waste Land
It’s not Tuesday, but Eliot still speaks, still echoes.
Fear and dust. Dust and fear sit heavy in my room, my mind.
Madeleine L’Engle comes in, pulls up a chair.
"Remember the root word of humble and human is the same: humus: earth. We are dust. We are created; it is God who made us and not we ourselves. But we were made to be co-creators with our maker." Walking on Water
We are dust. We are fear. But that is not all we are. We are also image bearers, light carriers, children of God. Co-creators.
Again the fear bubbles to the surface. I swallow it down with a swig of café negro.
It's scary to be a co-creator. It's scary to be responsible. To have the difficult conversations. To fight for truth and love.
Madeleine reminds, "The world tempts us to draw back, tempts us to believe we will not have to take this test. We are tempted to try to avoid not only our own suffering, but also that of our fellow human beings, the suffering of the world, which is part of our own suffering."
Lately I’ve drawn back. You can tell by the silence on the blog. I’ve drawn in. Drawn down.
Few things scare me more than meeting new people and speaking a foreign language. That’s pretty much all I do here, in Guatemala.
And it’s been hard. So I've gone all in and I've held back. I've tried to connect and I've thwarted connection. I've vacillated between fear and trust, bravery and dust.
Madeleine quotes Kafka, “It may be that this very holding back is the one evil you could have avoided."
Holding back my passion. Holding back my heart.
Scared to look like an idiot in a foreign culture. Scared to make a mistake. Scared to put myself out there and get nothing in return. Scared to say no to the men who pursue me for the wrong reasons because so few people are pursuing me at all.
I've always wished I was one of those people who wasn't so scared. Who could glide into a room, any room, and make friends. But that’s not me.
I’m broken and scared. A handful of dust. A fistful of fear.
But that is not all I am. I turn my eyes to the One who drives out fear. Who has given me a name and a hope and an inheritance. Who has brought me here for a reason. Who has promised to restore joy.
God, I give you the broken pieces. I give you the fear I cling to like a handful of dust and watch it fall through the cracks. Watch it spill through my fingers, dissolve into thin air.
Remove the scales of dust from eyelids so that I may see myself as you see me, as your child, your beloved. That I may see beyond the gray clouds, the gray dust, to the fullness of your light and love and to the sun I know is shining behind.
T.S. Tuesday: What Trees and T.S. Eliot Have in Common
The seatbelt cut into my chin and my jellied feet dangled above the floor. If we were coming home from gymnastics practice, my hands and hair would be covered in white chalk and I’d still be sporting a velvet leotard that I would probably not even take off to sleep that night. If we were coming home from the neighborhood pool, we’d still be suited up, seated atop damp beach towels, our shoulders would be pink and the bridges of our noses would boast both a smattering of new freckles and a fresh goggles indentation. If it was any other occasion, I’d probably be wearing my favorite purple sweatshirt with a cat on the front paired with a matching purple sweatskirt—yes, they made sweatskirts in the 80s.
Even if we’d been driving just a few minutes, I’d already be able to hear my younger brother’s sleepy breathing and the punching of buttons as my older brother battled evil forces on the glow of his Gameboy.
As the car swayed back and forth through the winding roads, I wouldn’t be sleeping or playing, I’d be dutifully staring out the side window.
I was still so small, so low in the car seat that I had to crane my neck to see above the child lock and power window buttons to the outside world. And even then I could only see sky, the green-tinged points of pine trees, the triangle tops of shingled roofs on two-story homes, spiky tv antennas, sweeping power lines, and the concave dip of the few satellite dishes that speckled the neighborhood in the early 90s.
It would all pass by in a lightening fast (for a five-year-old) blur of 25mph. We could be anywhere: coming back from a friend’s house, carpooling from gymnastics, or with my dad making the long trek home from Circuit City (which I always thought was a city in Utah). From my vantage point, the scenery was indistinguishable, a blur of meaningless shapes and colors.
We could have been anywhere. Hours from home. Minutes from home. I never knew.
Until I spotted the gnarled branches of an old oak tree that stretched into my line of sight: the Remembering Tree.
The Remembering Tree stood out among the forest of pines that lined the winding roads of my small Northern California neighborhood. Even in the dark, I could make out its distinctive bough clumped with patches of moss and mistletoe, and I would know we were almost home. The Remembering Tree was three houses down from my own house, closer even than the bus stop.
As soon as I saw the tree, I’d breathe a sigh of relief and settle in to my seat. I’d lean my head against the passenger door and shut my eyes in feigned sleep with hopes that my dad would carry me in to my bed.
We've long since moved away from the house beyond the Remembering Tree. But I haven’t forgotten the concept. I still seek out signs and symbols for security, safety, and a sense of home.
Now, instead of scanning for scarred branches, I memorize poetry. It sounds pretentious, but I assure you it stems not from a haughty, artistic elitism, but from the childlike need for familiarity in a rushing world.
I've developed the habit of repeating poetry at the end of every long run I take. As I round the corner or approach the front steps to my house, the same words release themselves from my lips, practically unbidden.
When I repeat the words of my favorite poets, like T.S. Eliot (And the darkness shall be the light and the stillness the dancing) or ee cummings (i thank you god for most this amazing day), when I say the same words in the same order time after time, I dwell in the words like I used to dwell in the branches. And, even if I’m miles and countries away from where I started, I’m reminded that home, and the One who makes His home in me, is much closer than I think.